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What’s
all this then?
The mission of phonesexonthebrain.com is to provide an alternative to a mainstream, artificial, and in other forms boring stereotypical phone sex experience.
The cliche of the moaning operator who bears no semblance to the dated porn content model photograph she has been told by her boss she must insist “is really her” exists for a reason. But there is another way of doing things.
Just as the porn industry has its independent, niche, passionate refugees – who bring delight in their specific sexualities to the table, so there are creative, intelligent, independently driven phone sex providers. If you always suspected there was something better than the old 1-900 ads, but didn’t think you could find it – you have now found it.
Language is THE aphrodesiac to end all aphrodesiacs. We are educated formally and informally. Voracious readers. Writers at times. Dominant, switch, submissive, and vanilla. Some of us show our photographs and get on cam. Some of us have identities to protect.
But no one in this camp uses a 25 dollar porn zip pack and claims it’s her. You’re not that stupid, and we know it.
There is another way of doing things. And it can get you off like never before.
Who are you?
Kat Salviati (pseudonym) mid 30’s. New York born and bred, happily fleeing to the Midwest. I’m cute but anonymous – the photos on this site are all photos I’ve chosen for their evocative sexy qualities, but they ain’t me, Jack. I’m brunette and mod with a few gothic tendencies in my fashion, if you want to form a mental picture.
You’d probably walk by me in Whole Foods or something and you might look twice, but you’d probably never guess what a raging pervert I actually am. And I like it that way.
What are you into?
I like to be in sexual control. Interpret that as you will. What I love best is creating a big reaction – a stir. A painfully unsatisfied hard on. A yelp of pain. A huge ceiling-splattering orgasm. Whatever permutation that takes.
I’m a fetishist with loads of BDSM experience, but kind of burnt out on the official community. I’m generally equally happy and comfortable with a casual OTK spanking and teasing, or an abduction coordinated with five people. In this I guess I’m kind of atypical. Most people prefer one or the other.
I found that in presenting my more stereotypical Dominatrix interests, a lot of guys were really scared off and missing the subtle and literate gamesmanship I really enjoy in a sensual scene.
To me, there’s a time and a place for the extreme and the more organic.
Look here for specialties like:
tease and denial / cocklock and chastity/ cuckolding / foot shoe and boot worship/ lingerie and stocking fetishes/ nylon fetishes / smothering and facesitting / erotic hypnosis (real and fantasy) / deviant and controlling phone GFE / feminization / discipline / small penis hilarity / sexual rejection / humiliation / enslavement / Goddess worship / sissification / crossdressers / panty addictions / sensual spankings / man training
You get the gist of it.
Can I dominate you, you exciting creature?
If you yourself are dominant, I am not against talking to you about dominating a girl together, or about my extensive fantasies and experiences. I’m not against talking about you dominating your wife, or even giving real-world solid advice. But there is a rule. It is don’t go pointing that thing at me, Mister. I will respect this rule, in turn. If you roll over and submit to me it will be because you wanted to, not because I kept being a jerk about it.
I am not a submissive. This is not for lack of trying – it does not scare me. I have done it. I think it’s healthy to do it if you’re going to go telling other people what to do. My findings?
It bores me. Particularly on the phone. And no, I haven’t “not met the right Dom yet.” Don’t be a dick and we could have a LOT of fun on the phone together with fantasies of lovely blushing things in our heads. I think co-dominant dynamics are under explored.
But, but I just want to make tender love and stare into each other’s eyes and all that!
If you want GFE phone sex with orgasms and heavy breathing, but you always wanted a cantankerous, prickly, deviant GF who you knew was going to break your heart in the end but you didn’t care, that’s probably a more accurate picture of what a hot phone tryst with me is like. Nice girls are great, but I’m not one. It’s just the way I’m drawn, as they say.
You can’t REALLY be into this, it’s just for the money.
I have never faked an orgasm over the phone.
I don’t have giant screaming fake sounding orgasms on demand that annoy my neighbors, either.
I think that sums up the entire question nicely. Everyone needs to eat, but I like fun. I am doing this in a specific, targeted, and particular way so that my fun is maximized. I have found that this also ups the fun factor for the caller, immensely.
If you feel like your dime is your dime, your fantasy your fantasy and you should be able to steamroller the girl to get what you want because you’re paying, goddammit – please save yourself the money by not calling me. If you believe in collaborative fun, then yes yes yes, by all means, call.
I’m sold already, and probably in love – break my heart, Miss Kat! How much?
2.50 per minute. I keep it mellow because I want to talk to you. If you are into quickies, I’m probably the wrong person – I can develop, sustain, weave, and illuminate your fantasy, though, in ways that you might be craving.
Is this your only job? What else do you do?
I have an art background. I toiled really hard as an independent designer for a few years, and at this point I’ve made a transition to doing phone sex as my livelihood and art as my pleasure and I’m much saner for the move. When you shop, support your independents, by checking etsy and dawanda before you go big box. Thanks!
